When I started writing, I wasn’t trying to build anything.

I wasn’t chasing followers or views or numbers.

I was just trying to survive something I didn’t know how to live through.

It started small — late nights when I couldn’t sleep, early mornings when my thoughts were too heavy to carry alone. Mojo snoring beside me, the glow of my laptop, and a heart that needed somewhere to go.

I never thought anyone would read it.

I just needed to say it.

To name the fear. To speak the truth. To put something honest into a world that sometimes feels allergic to honesty.

But then… you found me.

You found us.

You — the ones who read and whispered, “Me too.”

You — the ones who sent messages that started with, “I don’t know how to say this, but your words feel like mine.”

You — the ones who’ve lost, who’ve fought, who’ve loved someone through it.

You — the ones who come back, even when it hurts to read.

You didn’t just read my story.

You helped me write it.

Somewhere between the tears and the comments and the late-night messages, we stopped being strangers.

We became a family stitched together by words and pain and love — and maybe that’s the most beautiful kind of family there is.

This little corner of the internet — this messy, emotional, too-real-for-some-people corner — became something sacred.

A safe place.

A soft landing.

A reminder that even when life breaks your heart, you can still build something beautiful from the pieces.

We built something here.

Something that feels like home for people who don’t always feel like they have one anymore.

Something that says, “You’re not alone, even in this.”

And I know I talk a lot about numbers — the views, the shares, the milestones — but what really matters are the people behind them.

The woman who read one post during chemo and said it made her laugh for the first time in months.

The husband who said, “I finally understand what she’s going through.”

The friend who realized how to show up better.

The message that simply said, “Thank you for saying it out loud.”

That’s what we built.

Not just a blog — a heartbeat.

A chorus of people saying, “I see you.”

You’ve given my pain purpose.

You’ve turned my loneliness into belonging.

You’ve turned my story into a bridge between hearts that were never supposed to meet.

And every time I think maybe I’ve said enough, someone new finds this space — someone who needs it the same way I did when I started — and I remember: this matters.

Because we built something here that illness can’t take, that time can’t erase, and that even the hardest days can’t undo.

So if you’re reading this, please know: you’re part of it.

Whether you’ve been here from the first post or found me yesterday, your presence has shaped this space.

Your heart is stitched into the story now.

And I am endlessly grateful.

For the love.

For the kindness.

For the way you show up for me — and for each other.

We built something here.

And I hope you feel it too. 💗

🐾 Mojo’s POV

Mom says we built something, but I think what she really means is: we found our people.

The ones who stick around. The ones who don’t turn away when it gets hard.

The ones who show up with soft words, funny comments, and hearts too big for the internet.

I don’t know much about views or blogs, but I know this pack?

It’s special.

And if love could heal her, I think yours already has. 🐾

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3 responses to “💌 We Built Something Here”

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    I’m so amazingly proud of you my girl Sent from my iPhone

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  2. mshibdonssciencelab Avatar

    You are truly wonderful. Yes, have shed tears reading many of your posts, but your words are so important! I’ve learned so much about your disease and your feelings. I see you. I hear you. I love you! Your readers are here for you and each other. How wonderful is that? Very.

    hugs to you from momma

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  3. mshibdonssciencelab Avatar

    You are truly wonderful. Yes, have shed tears reading many of your posts, but your words are so important! I’ve learned so much about your disease and your feelings. I see you. I hear you. I love you! Your readers are here for you and each other. How wonderful is that? Very.

    hugs to you from momma

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I’m Izzy

Welcome to mojo and the mess, This isn’t the blog I ever expected to write — but it’s the one I needed.

I’m Izzy, a twenty-something living (and dying) with terminal cancer, navigating the messy, heartbreaking, unexpectedly beautiful in-between. Here, you’ll find raw reflections, real talk, dog snuggles (shoutout to Mojo), and the unfiltered truth about what it’s like to face the end of your life before it really got going.

This space is for the ones who’ve felt forgotten, the ones who don’t know what to say, and the ones who are still holding on. It’s not always pretty, but it’s always honest.

Thanks for being here. You’re part of the mess now — and I mean that in the best way.

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