Hey friends — I wanted to put up a little update for everyone who’s been checking in, texting, or just quietly wondering how things are going. I see you, and I appreciate you more than I can say.
Things have been… a lot. My body’s doing that thing again where it reminds me who’s really running the show, and it’s not me. I’ve been really sick lately — a mix of nausea, pain, and exhaustion that’s made keeping food down feel like an Olympic event. Between that and all the new symptoms creeping in, it’s been rough.
We did new scans, and while I wish I could say they looked good — they didn’t. There’s progression, and the plan has shifted. The goal now is comfort, control, and keeping my quality of life as high as we can for as long as we can. That means more meds, more appointments, and a lot of learning to listen to my body instead of fighting it every second of the day.
What That Looks Like Right Now
Some days I wake up and feel almost normal — I can work on a design, write a post, maybe even make it outside with Mojo. Other days, I’m couch-bound, watching the world spin while Pete swaps ice packs and tries to make me laugh.
It’s not all bad. There are still good moments — small ones, but they matter. Sitting outside for ten minutes of sun. Getting a text that makes me smile. Mojo sleeping like a little gremlin next to me.
I’m trying to hold onto those.
For Everyone Asking How to Help
So many of you have asked if I need anything. The truth is, it changes by the day — but I did put together an Amazon list for those who wanted to do something tangible. It’s full of little comfort things and stuff that makes the bad days a little easier.
💌 Check out the Gift List I just created
There’s absolutely no pressure — your messages, comments, and prayers mean just as much. Truly. This community has carried me through more than you’ll ever know.
What’s Next
The short version? We take it day by day. We laugh when we can. We rest when we need to. We keep finding small ways to make this messy life a little brighter.
Thank you to everyone who continues to check in, share posts, read the blogs, and remind me I’m not in this alone. I feel it — every single bit of it — and it keeps me going.
Until next time… stay kind, stay grateful, and stay messy.
— Izzy (& Mojo) 🐾
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